<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460</id><updated>2011-10-07T08:04:08.167-07:00</updated><category term='cancer'/><title type='text'>a million musings</title><subtitle type='html'>Thoughts on life, love, oh yeah and the music business</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>19</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-1962796618575429328</id><published>2010-05-03T20:15:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-03T20:15:24.749-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Jeff Sable and the Sable Band "Everyone Wants Her"</title><content type='html'>&lt;object style="background-image:url(http://i1.ytimg.com/vi/HjzFf8Wn_mk/hqdefault.jpg)"  width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/HjzFf8Wn_mk&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/HjzFf8Wn_mk&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1" width="425" height="344" allowScriptAccess="never" allowFullScreen="true" wmode="transparent" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-1962796618575429328?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/1962796618575429328/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=1962796618575429328' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/1962796618575429328'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/1962796618575429328'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2010/05/jeff-sable-and-sable-band-everyone.html' title='Jeff Sable and the Sable Band &quot;Everyone Wants Her&quot;'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-2472471339571401820</id><published>2009-11-30T15:37:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-30T15:51:40.113-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cancer'/><title type='text'>I've survived</title><content type='html'>For those of you who wonder how I am. I survived the surgery and am healing well. My Gleason score was 9 so the worry is that the cancer will come back and get me. The surgeon advised me that he wanted to keep me on hormone therapy for two and a half years and send me for radiation as well. All this as a precaution. He gave me the hormone shot shortly after surgery which lasts six months and wanted me to do the radiation about 8 weeks out from surgery.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With the help of family and friends I did a lot of research and came to the opinion that the "precaution" treatment side effects to my overall health and well being would out way any benefit, especially since there are new treatments in the approval process for the FDA,  and advised the doctor that's what I thought. He agreed to follow an alternative strategy of taking my PSA every three months and if it starts rising then I'll deal with treatments at that time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So I have survived at this point, and am cautiously optimistic. My biggest issue right now is the Hormone Treatments and the fact that despite working out many times a week my muscle tone has gone away, I have about 1/3 the strength I use to and am fatigued all the time. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bitch...bitch....bithc&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-2472471339571401820?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/2472471339571401820/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=2472471339571401820' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/2472471339571401820'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/2472471339571401820'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2009/11/ive-survived.html' title='I&apos;ve survived'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-6461182765381445683</id><published>2009-04-29T11:14:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-04-29T11:19:25.700-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Some good stuff buried in the archives</title><content type='html'>Not sure why but some good posts don't show in the topics listed, but can be found in the archives. Check the archives under Feb 2006 and Feb 2007 for posts about love, being liked and about James Brown. Something re the Mama's and Papa's may be there too.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-6461182765381445683?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/6461182765381445683/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=6461182765381445683' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/6461182765381445683'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/6461182765381445683'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2009/04/some-good-stuff-buried-in-archives.html' title='Some good stuff buried in the archives'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-2443163914067045619</id><published>2009-04-29T10:47:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-04-29T11:02:23.012-07:00</updated><title type='text'>How am I doing?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;I have cancer. Not your ordinary everyday prostate cancer....no...no...no. ... not for me. Being the over achiever that I am, I have the super aggressive ...this one will kill you variety. PSA 14.4 Gleason Score in 7. 8. or 10 depending on which of the seven pathologists that have looked at it you want to go with. The latest ones are probably the most "respected" and they say I'm sorta screwed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;I am often asked lately....How am I doing?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;meta equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"&gt;&lt;meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"&gt;&lt;meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 12"&gt;&lt;meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 12"&gt;&lt;link style="font-family: verdana;" rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5CMax%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"&gt;&lt;link style="font-family: verdana;" rel="themeData" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5CMax%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_themedata.thmx"&gt;&lt;link style="font-family: verdana;" rel="colorSchemeMapping" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5CMax%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_colorschememapping.xml"&gt;&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;&lt;xml&gt;  &lt;w:worddocument&gt; 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 &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;I’ve started on the anti hormones, removing all my testosterone, so I’m much more fatigued and am taking lots of naps. I'm having to work out an hour a day so I don’t lose too much bone. Can’t gain any muscle tone because no hormones. The hot flashes that accompany this should start next week. Please…no Men-o-pause jokes, thank you.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;One of the issues with this is how do you fix it for the best result long term. I was going to do surgery. Then switched to radiation and have had the beacons implanted as guides for the machine to do its work. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Now I’m finding more material saying that surgery may be the better way long term. Radiation starts June 13, so who knows I may switch options before then. I’m still doing my homework.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;Chemotherapy has been suggested as a supplement to everything else, but I am undecided on that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;I went yesterday to my first visit since my diagnosis to a psychologist. &lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;I know him since we worked together to do seminars at the Relationship Centers years ago. He was helpful and I expect will be a good fit. He helped me put in words the feelings that go through you.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(54, 95, 145);"&gt;It’s like being in a plane that is going to go down in a crash. Everything is in slow motion and you know that something bad is going to happen…really bad……. but you just don’t know just how bad. There is an ominous, frightening feeling of helplessness and some hopelessness too. You want to do something but your options don’t seem good….so there is tremendous anxiety and FEAR.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;I’m a survivor. I have faith. I have lots of people praying for me. I have friends and a good support system. I have had, and will have a good life….a satisfying and interesting life. Though the quality of my life &lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;u&gt;will&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt; suffer due to my health, I have a lot left to offer and a lot left to experience. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;Sometimes shit happens. This time it happened to me. I could rail against fate, the Gods, myself, or whatever but it would serve no purpose other than self pity. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;I’m doing pretty well. So far.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-2443163914067045619?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/2443163914067045619/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=2443163914067045619' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/2443163914067045619'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/2443163914067045619'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2009/04/how-am-i-doing.html' title='How am I doing?'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-1875395254154167607</id><published>2007-09-13T13:08:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T05:48:44.329-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I am blessed to be involved with music.</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RumZuRGdSZI/AAAAAAAAACo/kkrEzKAyiME/s1600-h/Gold+Lame+in+hallway.a.ccc.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RumZuRGdSZI/AAAAAAAAACo/kkrEzKAyiME/s320/Gold+Lame+in+hallway.a.ccc.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5109784272372058514" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Two weeks ago on a  Thursday, I had a  night that took me back to my youth and made me realize how blessed I am to have grown up in a musical family, that I inherited what talent I received and my love of music.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I get a lot of submissions of artists, literally from all over the world (seriously....Argentina, Russia, England and more) . Some are looking for a manager, some are looking for a label. Some are looking for both.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  It isn’t often that I receive demos that I can go forward with. Some don’t have the talent required. Some are awful, some are good. They are good but good doesn’t often succeed in the entertainment business because there are so many people that are good. Exceptional is what I am looking for because even with exceptional talent, a good manager or label exec knows that there are still so many obstacles in your way. The fact is that even with exceptional talent the odds of you being successful are very small.  See my post The Business of Music - Improving your odds for more on this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But every once in a while I get a submission that is heads above the rest. An artist or band that is extraordinary. Anyway, maybe two months ago I got one of those. Not wanting to trust my opinion alone I gave it to some folks who know and love music and understand the business for their input. DJ’s, Super Fans, label folks and others that I value their opinion. The feedback I got from folks was that the music and lyrics were very good, and the demo was well produced. The consensus was “this could be a winner.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, I started talking with the folks, in this case a band headed by a female who has a voice that is somewhere between Bonnie Raitt and Janis Joplin. Her voice is unique enough to differentiate her sound from the many others that are out there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, we talked a little and I made arrangements to drive about two hours to see them. As it turned out I got to the club and only got to hear two songs.  But they were an impressive two songs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So the artists and I talked afterwards for an hour or two and decided to head back. We had made arrangements with the musicians co-op in the town to stay overnight. The artists were staying there as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We ended up sitting on the front porch on a beautiful night with a guitar and talking and singing until after 3 in the morning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It took me back to my college days. And I was revived and refreshed ....and I once again knew why I loved doing what I do and being part of the “Community of Music.”&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-1875395254154167607?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/1875395254154167607/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=1875395254154167607' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/1875395254154167607'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/1875395254154167607'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2007/09/i-am-blessed-to-be-involved-with-music.html' title='I am blessed to be involved with music.'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RumZuRGdSZI/AAAAAAAAACo/kkrEzKAyiME/s72-c/Gold+Lame+in+hallway.a.ccc.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-5882671739815796786</id><published>2007-09-13T10:08:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-09-13T10:13:03.932-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Me and Jerry Lee 3 (photos)</title><content type='html'>I have more photos but haven't been able to upload them yet. There are problems with the upload. I'll get to it later.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-5882671739815796786?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/5882671739815796786/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=5882671739815796786' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/5882671739815796786'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/5882671739815796786'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2007/09/me-and-jerry-lee-3-photos.html' title='Me and Jerry Lee 3 (photos)'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-3347347191715998115</id><published>2007-09-13T10:03:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T05:48:44.659-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Me and Jerry Lee 2 (the photos)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/Rult7hGdSTI/AAAAAAAAAB4/3Bb85zIaUew/s1600-h/Jery+Lee+Lewis+1964+Polaroid+below+the+piano.a.s.w.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/Rult7hGdSTI/AAAAAAAAAB4/3Bb85zIaUew/s320/Jery+Lee+Lewis+1964+Polaroid+below+the+piano.a.s.w.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5109736121493702962" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RultlRGdSRI/AAAAAAAAABo/5-u9qKIcqkE/s1600-h/Jery+Lee+Lewis+1964+crop+photo.cc.a.s.w.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RultlRGdSRI/AAAAAAAAABo/5-u9qKIcqkE/s320/Jery+Lee+Lewis+1964+crop+photo.cc.a.s.w.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5109735739241613586" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I only included a couple of photos as the blog won't hold too many.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Check out Me and Jerry Lee 3 for more.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-3347347191715998115?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/3347347191715998115/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=3347347191715998115' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/3347347191715998115'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/3347347191715998115'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2007/09/me-and-jerry-lee-2-photos.html' title='Me and Jerry Lee 2 (the photos)'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/Rult7hGdSTI/AAAAAAAAAB4/3Bb85zIaUew/s72-c/Jery+Lee+Lewis+1964+Polaroid+below+the+piano.a.s.w.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-7023192039101719052</id><published>2007-09-13T08:24:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T05:48:45.063-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Length of Management Contract (Don't believe everything you read)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RulX6BGdSJI/AAAAAAAAAAo/RQha6YVVCis/s1600-h/Terry+Corby+outfit.a..s.w.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RulX6BGdSJI/AAAAAAAAAAo/RQha6YVVCis/s320/Terry+Corby+outfit.a..s.w.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5109711906468087954" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Read and learn but.....You can’t always believe what you read.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A year or so back I got turned on to a very talented young female singer/songwriter. I saw a lot of great talent. Enough that she stood above anyone I had seen in a long time, so I got excited about working with her. We had met a few times and started the process of negotiating an agreement. One of the first things I told her was to get a lawyer knowledgeable about entertainment.(my lawyer hates it when I do that)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The lawyer she selected told her she shouldn’t have more than one year agreement, and that if I wanted more than a year this was proof I was trying to take advantage of her.    I’ve seen this same advice given many places on the net (on indie music sights,) that says the same thing. Some of these are even written by lawyers. In fact I saw this advice today on a posting about Artist Management Contracts on about.com. Not picking on them, you can find it on other sites as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt;I’ll share something with you. Anyone who gives out such advice doesn’t know what they are talking about.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;At least in my humble (yeah right!) opinion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I would never sign a one year agreement and I don’t know of any legitimate (and/or knowledgeable) manager that would.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It takes time  to do everything associated with putting your career on track.  I’ve not seen an unsigned artist (nor many signed ones) that didn’t need Talent/Artist Development. I can't give you a one day program on being a better performer and taking better care of your fans.  And it takes time to put together a Strategic Plan and the Marketing /Promotion plan too!  It takes time to get the artist into the studio, record, mix, master. Put together demo packages geared toward your intended targets etc. And a whole lot more that is necessary to get an artist positioned to be successful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All of that takes time, depending on the artist it can take a lot of time.  Why would a manager take all that time and work to put all that together and then have no time left on a contract?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are trying to negotiate a “deal” with a label, those negotiations alone can take many months.  If a label finds out your manager has only a one year deal, l they can wait it out with superfluous negotiations until the managers contract is done. Then they can come back to the artist and offer you a deal, perhaps at less favorable terms...and tied to “you must sign a management contract with ....(someone who looks out for the label interest more than yours.)&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 102, 102);"&gt; No they would never do that! The labels...like the government....is your friend, and is only here to help you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Managers know the odds at any individual artist being successful. The odds  are very poor, even if you are an immense talent. I won’t go into that in this post. Look for my other posts and check out                                     &lt;span style="color: rgb(204, 153, 51);font-size:130%;" &gt;The Business of Music, Bettering your Odds&lt;/span&gt;, for more information about the odds of being successful in the music business.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Managers also know that with an unsigned artist the Manager invests three years of his time and money before he can expect any return....if he ever gets a return at all (remember the odds.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So you’re wasting your breath....and my time to ask me for a one year contract.   I didn’t just fall off the turnip truck.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My negotiations with the singer/songwriter drug on for six months (I’ll never do that again.) Term wasn’t the only issue but it was a big one.  Finally I told her I’d rather be a fan than her manager and/or label. I hated telling her that because she was so talented.  I go see her perform now and then, as I still admire her talent. She’s not much farther along in her career now than she was a couple of years ago..... and she should be.  That makes me sad.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now I realize that if you pick the wrong manager and you have a long term contract, you can lose a lot too! So, you have to pick carefully, and be sure you've got the right person.  That's hard to do. But that's what you have to do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can’t believe everything you read on the net or in books.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having said that...here is something you can read....hah! It is written by an entertainment lawyer and touches on the points I made.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The following article can be found at http:indiebible.com/icb/feb2001.shtml#10. I have included the entire article but I encourage you to go to the source, so that you do not have to trust me, that I have somehow modified it to favor my point of view.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"&gt;10. ARTIST MANAGEMENT CONTRACTS II by Joyce Sydnee Dollinger&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@&lt;br /&gt;"Music is a business and you must well versed in the business to make a career as a musician." -- Music Industry Executive&lt;br /&gt;The legal relationship between a personal manager is usually based on leverage in the music business. Those artists who are new to the music scene, have less bargaining power when contracting. However, this does not mean they will not enter into a fair deal with personal manager they want to work with. Fair is not the same thing as leverage.&lt;br /&gt;Management contracts can be long and hard to decipher, but don’t let them scare you. Just remember what is important to you and what your common goal is since this will lead to the path of a fair, intelligible contract. Exclusivity and the term of a personal management contract are necessary topics that should be discussed first.&lt;br /&gt;In a personal management contract, exclusivity is one-sided. An artist must accept the personal manager as the exclusive personal representative for the artist. However, a personal manager’s services are not exclusive to that artist. A personal manager must be at all times free to perform the same services for others and be able to engage in other business ventures.&lt;br /&gt;If the artist is signing with a corporation or partnership, but has a personal relationship with a particular manager in the corporation or partnership, the artist may be able to request a key-person clause to be added to this term in her personal management agreement. Again, it depends on the leverage of the artist and the company the artist is signing with. This clause guarantees that the personal manager, not some other person in the management corporation or one of the manager’s friends, will be primarily responsible in rendering services to and on behalf of the artist. The artist may also request that a clause be added stating something to the effect that if the personal manager works with another client or in another business venture, the manager will have sufficient time to dedicate to the artist.&lt;br /&gt;The term in a personal management contract can be based upon a fixed period with options, measured by third party agreements, or performance criteria. Most fixed period contracts are for a minimum of three (3) years and go to six (6) years. These fixed periods exclude the option periods and are at the manager’s discretion because the manager is the person required to perform certain services for the artist. Options are usually exercised yearly.&lt;br /&gt;If the term is to be measured by long-term third-party agreements such as a record release or publishing agreement, the personal management contract is usually defined co-terminously with the third-party agreement. These agreements are usually for signed, established artists. This is fair to both parties since the artist will need someone to help her during that time with promotions, press and making sure the third-party is doing its job for the artist. The term in a third-party contract may also be based on a number of albums deal, such as a three album cycle.&lt;br /&gt;The term can also be based upon performance criteria, such as procurement of a record deal, a bona-fide business offer, or income levels. Contracts with newer artists usually have a "shopping period" and state that if a recording agreement or other third-party entertainment contract is not procured within a period of up to twenty-four (24) months, but usually eighteen (18) months, after the commencement of the term, then the management agreement may be terminated by either party.&lt;br /&gt;Other personal management contracts state that if a bona fide business offer is not accepted by the artist, such as a booking agent, publishing, or literary contract, the personal manager should be allowed to extend the term of the contract. A personal manager may also be allowed to extend the term if the artist is not meeting her end of the bargain or in a group situation, one of the members leaves and holds up the process of the band.&lt;br /&gt;Artists can also insert provisions that provide for a minimum of earnings which the artist must obtain during the period before any option period may be exercised. This extension of a personal management contract is based upon gross earnings during the years preceding the relevant option periods.&lt;br /&gt;Realistically, it is hard for both parties to terminate their contract just because they don’t like each other anymore because there is a personal investment which needs to be returned. There has to be a breach of the contract.&lt;br /&gt;The artist, along with the personal manager, must understand that their relationship grows with time and that a personal manager needs a fair length of time to help an artist gain success in the music business. It can take a really long time before an artist starts obtaining notoriety or financial gain. Artists must be realistic with obtaining their goals.&lt;br /&gt;Please note that this article only touches on the key points of a management contract. I do suggest that if you are negotiating a deal with a personal manager, you consult an attorney first.&lt;br /&gt;====================================================&lt;br /&gt;Joyce Sydnee Dollinger is an attorney admitted in New York and Florida and currently works at a major label in the Corporate Legal &amp;amp; Business Affairs department. She is also the Vice President of 2 Generations SPA Music Management, Inc. and SPA Records, Inc.. 2 Generations (www.2generations.com) is a music management company representing signed and unsigned bands/artists, producers and songwriters in all genres of music. 2 Generations also represents entertainment organizations/ businesses and provides consulting and entertainment services.&lt;br /&gt;SPA Records, Inc. (www.sparecords.com) is a record label dedicated to developing, promoting and distributing breaking acts to the US and the World using traditional and innovative distribution channels. You can reach Joyce by email at joyce@2generations.com or by voice at 212-879-6997.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-7023192039101719052?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/7023192039101719052/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=7023192039101719052' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/7023192039101719052'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/7023192039101719052'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2007/09/length-of-management-contract-dont.html' title='Length of Management Contract (Don&apos;t believe everything you read)'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RulX6BGdSJI/AAAAAAAAAAo/RQha6YVVCis/s72-c/Terry+Corby+outfit.a..s.w.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-8214264909284772794</id><published>2007-08-29T10:08:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T05:48:45.212-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Start Here</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RulZQhGdSKI/AAAAAAAAAAw/ljUykDFp4Uw/s1600-h/Music+Row+Headshot.sm.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RulZQhGdSKI/AAAAAAAAAAw/ljUykDFp4Uw/s320/Music+Row+Headshot.sm.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5109713392526772386" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As blogs go...this isn't much. I stay pretty busy and seldom have time to write down my thoughts or put together something meaningful.  I hope you find it entertaining, interesting or thought provoking...but I won't hold my breath. Hah!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-8214264909284772794?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/8214264909284772794/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=8214264909284772794' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/8214264909284772794'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/8214264909284772794'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2007/08/start-here.html' title='Start Here'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RulZQhGdSKI/AAAAAAAAAAw/ljUykDFp4Uw/s72-c/Music+Row+Headshot.sm.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-4621989884111935140</id><published>2007-07-30T07:44:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-08-29T10:17:41.635-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The dream shared by all humanity</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I can say, yeah, I've touched a lot of people's souls and a lot of people's minds.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt;Keith Richards&lt;br /&gt;Fortieth Anniversary Issue of &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-family:trebuchet ms;" &gt;Rolling Stone&lt;/span&gt; Magazine&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;This is the dream we all share, all of  us. That someone knows we were here when we are gone.  For most of us it is not accomplished.  Sure for a couple of generations your spawn may remember, " my great grandfather was a milkman."  What's a milkman? A guy who went door to door in a truck and delivered milk. In 200 years will anyone know what a truck was or even milk?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Being a musician you have an opportunity to touch peoples' souls ....yes to be like Keith......what a thought!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here's to you Keith.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PSS. 42 years ago you did me a big favor. You won't remember it...or me....I'm sure.... I only remember about half and its my life.....twas the age of "better living through chemistry."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-4621989884111935140?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/4621989884111935140/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=4621989884111935140' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/4621989884111935140'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/4621989884111935140'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2007/07/dream-shared-by-all-humanity.html' title='The dream shared by all humanity'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-7697262410360960725</id><published>2007-03-19T15:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T05:48:45.691-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Me and Jerry Lee</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RuldORGdSNI/AAAAAAAAABI/XzvTmF2FWLI/s1600-h/Jerry+Lee+Lewis+1964s.w..jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RuldORGdSNI/AAAAAAAAABI/XzvTmF2FWLI/s320/Jerry+Lee+Lewis+1964s.w..jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5109717751918577874" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RulZqhGdSLI/AAAAAAAAAA4/Voj-XQRvz3U/s1600-h/Me..High+School+Musical.s.w.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RulZqhGdSLI/AAAAAAAAAA4/Voj-XQRvz3U/s320/Me..High+School+Musical.s.w.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5109713839203371186" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"&gt;One of these photos is me,  about the time I met Jerry Lee. The other is the autographed photo Jerry Lee gave me on this night.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'll let you guess who is who.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was in my youth, and still am, a Jerry Lee Lewis fan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ok, I know he's full of himself, not a saint, hasn't led the greatest of lives. Still, here is a guy who doesn't read music but can pound out a song on piano like nobody else. He has had a career that spanned many decades.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before I tell my story of my first meeting with Jerry Lee, I want to pay a little tribute to Dennis Quaid.  I was blown away by the movie &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Great Balls of Fire.&lt;/span&gt; See Dennis Quaid &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;was &lt;/span&gt;Jerry Lee.  I know he spent some time with Jerry Lee before he played the part. He must be a great observer of people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;OK. I was 17 years old and in a band. Not sure but it was probably Maxemillion and the Fabulous Titans. This was about 1964 I guess.  I grew up in Cincinnati Ohio and was in high school there at the time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jerry Lee Lewis was playing in a bar across the river in Newport, KY.  I'm not sure what Newport is like today, but in 1964 it was the "sin" capital of the Midwest. In 1956 Life magazine said that more gambling was done illegally in Newport than was done legally in Las Vegas...if that gives you an idea of the type of town we are talking about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course at 17 you aren't allowed in bars.  But my bass player, Barry (also 17) and his girlfriend Sue Talley (age 21)  decided we wanted to see Jerry Lee.  But how were we going to get into a bar where the drinking age was 21?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We get Sue's friend to send a telegram to the club saying we were going to interview Jerry Lee for Vaskall Publications who published Tiger Beat and 17.  Supposedly Vaskall was send two interviewers and a photographer to the club on the night he would be playing in the club.  The telegram said we were getting in on a very late flight and we would not be at the club until after midnight (we had a gig we were playing which was over at midnight.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Four days before the date we called the bar and confirmed everything by phone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the night in question, we finished our gig, packed up our equipment and then got dressed in suits etc so we would look older.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We showed up at the front door and the security guy at the front desk asks for our ID.  We show him the telegram. He is unimpressed. "I don't care who sent you, show me ID or hit the sidewalk." We went around and around for a while...we not wanting to show ID, he not letting us in without it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally, in a flash of inspiration (and a lot of desperation) I said, " Ok, we're leaving. But when Chuck (the Flamingo manager) comes out here and asks if you've seen reporters from !7, you be sure to tell him you threw us out....cause when we call him on Monday...that's what we are going to tell him."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With that we turned to leave. He said, "Wait" and left to go get Chuck who escorted us in.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By this time it was about 1:30 am and the club was packed to the rafters. Jerry Lee was finishing his set.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chuck, the manager went to the table directly in front of Jerry Lee, at the edge of the dance floor and moved the people who were sitting there out so we could have a place to sit...now that was service.  He took our drink order and a waitress brought us drinks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A few minutes later Chuck came by and said Jerry Lee needed a little time to cool off and he would see us in about 20 minutes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shortly thereafter Chuck came to get us and took us back to Jerry Lee's dressing room. Here he was....bigger than life....Jerry Lee Lewis, in the flesh.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We had seen him drinking on stage, and he was finishing a drink when we came in. Right off the bat he grabbed a bottle of liquor (I want to say Jack Daniels but I'm not sure) and poured it into a class with some soda. Looking around he saw a screwdriver (and a pretty nasty looking one at that) on the floor. He picked it up and stirred the drink.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He had a lot of bravado and was quite the character...letting us know that "He" was the king of rock n roll, despite what others might say about that Presley kid.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We"interviewed" him for about 15 minutes and there was a hard pounding at the door.  Chuck the Flamingo manager was in with us and he shouted, "who is it?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now I don't remember who the Sheriff was in 1964, but whoever it was yelled "It's Sheriff (Blank.)  " We think there are underage people in the club and we're going to check ID's."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chuck yells "Hit the bar and get a drink...Ill be out in a few minutes."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We return to our interview, talking with Jerry Lee about his career, how he writes songs, how he learned how to play since he didn't read music and about Myra.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fifteen minutes later there is a pounding at the door. " This is Sheriff Blank and I'm not waitin at the bar all night. We're going to check ID's."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chuck again says " Hey ______ we're almost done. Just give me a couple more minutes."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So we resumed our interview. When we were done, we thanked him profusely and went back to our table.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chuck goes and talks to the Sheriff. The sheriff and his deputies start checking ID's. They were methodically going table to table. It didn't matter if you came in with a walker and had gray hair and a shawl...the sheriff and his deputies wanted to see your ID.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jerry Lee gets back on stage and announces "Now this is the 3 o'clock show....it's the last set of the night so if you want to dance just come on up and get on the floor." He starts to sit down at the piano, then steps back to the microphone and says " You can dance ....but these folks down here (he points to us) are from the press and they will be taking photos so don't get in their way."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's right at this point that the Sheriff himself gets to our table. We are all having visions of being the jail "bitch" in our overnight stay in the Newport County Jail, a place where we really didn't want to go.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Sheriff leans over to our table and say, "Now you folks be sure to say a few good words about Newport, KY. ....OK.... and moved on to the next table.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After I scraped my pants out.... I got up to take pictures. By this time, the relief of not being arrested and the few drinks I had made me pretty bold.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before the set was over I was standing on Jerry Lee's piano and taking photos looking down at him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's not the only time I met with Jerry Lee. But it was the meeting that had my heart pounding .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I couldn't post the photos I took that night for some reason. Check out a post Jerry Lee and Me 2. I'll try posting them seperately.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-7697262410360960725?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/7697262410360960725/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=7697262410360960725' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/7697262410360960725'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/7697262410360960725'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2007/03/me-and-jerry-lee.html' title='Me and Jerry Lee'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RuldORGdSNI/AAAAAAAAABI/XzvTmF2FWLI/s72-c/Jerry+Lee+Lewis+1964s.w..jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-1231492516942933431</id><published>2007-03-19T11:40:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T05:48:45.868-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Time</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/Rul_ERGdSVI/AAAAAAAAACI/T_IVBHGZpWA/s1600-h/Max.with+Heywoods+at+Hebron+KY.c.a.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/Rul_ERGdSVI/AAAAAAAAACI/T_IVBHGZpWA/s320/Max.with+Heywoods+at+Hebron+KY.c.a.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5109754963515230546" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Time is the most valuable thing on earth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No one knows how much time they have left.  So time is more valuable than money, than health, than even love....and love is damned important.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't waste my time. It is the Cardinal sin.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-1231492516942933431?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/1231492516942933431/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=1231492516942933431' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/1231492516942933431'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/1231492516942933431'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2007/03/time.html' title='Time'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/Rul_ERGdSVI/AAAAAAAAACI/T_IVBHGZpWA/s72-c/Max.with+Heywoods+at+Hebron+KY.c.a.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-7492960487767124924</id><published>2007-03-19T11:17:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-03-19T11:36:04.155-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Respect</title><content type='html'>About 10 years ago I had a consulting firm come into a business that I had to help me get past some growth issues. In the process of working with me, they met with each of my 35 employees and talked with them about their jobs. What they did. What they liked and didn't like about their jobs. How their jobs could be improved. How the company could be improved.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After a couple of weeks the two consultants met with me to talk about what they had found.  "Before we start with the results, we'd like to talk with you about something we find quite remarkable," they said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"OK" said I, not knowing what to think or what was coming.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"We interviewed every employee that works here. Each and every one of them told us that you treated them with respect. We've never seen a company where &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;everyone&lt;/span&gt; feels they are respected."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was somewhat surprised.  I am a tough boss but I try to be fair. But the boss is the boss and there are always going to be decisions that impact negatively on someone. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have studied many of the world's great religions. Most all of them have something that is similar to what we call The Golden Rule.  Do unto others as you would have people do unto you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's not a hard concept to understand. Sometimes it isn't always easy to do. Fear, anger, greed, lust  (oops are we getting into the 7 deadly sins here?) may get in the way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I try to live my life by the Golden Rule.  How about you? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The world would be a better place if we all tried to follow this simple philosophy.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-7492960487767124924?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/7492960487767124924/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=7492960487767124924' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/7492960487767124924'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/7492960487767124924'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2007/03/respect.html' title='Respect'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-5135332150630990663</id><published>2007-02-14T14:45:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-02-14T14:55:06.369-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Turning names into fans</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;!--[if supportFields]&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-CA" style="'font-size:"&gt;&lt;span style="'mso-element:field-begin'"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="'mso-spacerun:yes'"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;SEQ CHAPTER \h \r 1&lt;/span&gt;&lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if supportFields]&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-CA" style="'font-size:12.0pt;mso-ansi-language:EN-CA'"&gt;&lt;span style="'mso-element:field-end'"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;In a previous post I revealed the most important secret for being successful in the music business is capturing and then wisely marketing to the names,&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;email addresses, and zip codes for the people who comes to your shows, your web site, your &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;MySpace&lt;/span&gt; page and more.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As promised, this month I’m going to talk about turning names into fans .&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;The names that you have captured are the people who can make you a prosperous future in music or put you behind the counter at Blockbuster Video. So you need to take care of them...turn them into fans. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;How? You need to get &lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;personal&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;No, I’m not talking about the little chickadee that you get personal with as she’s tuning your flute during one of the breaks.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you capture a name....within the first week send a email thanking them for signing up, visiting your site etc.. Let them know that you appreciate them and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;wouldn&lt;/span&gt;’t be able to make a living in music without them. Don’t hesitate to be humble....put down the rock star persona for just a moment to recognize that without the fans you just might have to adopt the &lt;i&gt;“&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Starbuck&lt;/span&gt;’s &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;barista&lt;/span&gt; persona”.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Go out of your way to make everything you do with your email list, web site, any contact with the names you capture have a personal touch.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Professional, knowledgeable, but personal.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Each week send them an email. &lt;b&gt;Don’t just put the dates, times and location of where you are playing.&lt;/b&gt; Sure you want to put that info in the email. You want them to come out to the gigs. But you want to convey more.... you want to be personal....like each and every one of them is a friend. You&lt;b&gt; really&lt;/b&gt; should think of them that way. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;They will have a lot more to do with your making a living in the music business than many of your “friends.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Each week as part of the email, have a different person in the band (if you are a band) write a paragraph or two about what is going on in your career and sign it. Let them know about song writing, recording sessions, trying to get a deal, radio play, birth of your kids (the ones you know about,) buying a new guitar, and more. If you give folks a chance to be part of your life and career, many of them will love you for it, be loyal, buy your stuff and assist your&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;career in ways you can’t even think of now.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your web site should be fan friendly with some sort of personal communication between you and the person coming to your site. Make it easy for them to get in and stay. Whether it be a personal greeting letter for low bandwidth or a welcoming video for high....thank them for coming to see you right up front.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;If you have a message board on your web site be sure that someone in the band responds to questions and comments. Give folks a chance to sign up to be part of your formal fan club.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;We’ll discuss the pros and cons of FREE vs charging for the fan club and a lot more about web sites, in a different column. Joining the fan club should have lots of benefits...discounts or free downloads, merchandise discounts, special fan club only&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;performances or meet and greets, advance ticket sales. Make them the ultimate insiders with contests for&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;back stage visits and monthly chats.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Set up a &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;“&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;putyourbandnamehere&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;” chat group on Yahoo, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;MSN&lt;/span&gt; or other site specifically for fan club members. Once a month on an advance scheduled time have one or more band members join the chat for personal insights about what is going on with you and your fans.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;There is a lot more....but that’s a start. Be regular, professional and above all....be &lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;personal&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt; in all ways you interact with your fan base.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Get started now. It will pay off for you.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;PS. Take good care of your “flute tuner” too. From personal experience I have seen an artist who “blew off” a flute tuner after a few &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;rendezvous's,&lt;/span&gt; that later suffered cause the “flute tuner” had the ear of the “head” of A&amp;R at a major label. Seems he liked having his flute tuned as well.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-5135332150630990663?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/5135332150630990663/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=5135332150630990663' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/5135332150630990663'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/5135332150630990663'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2007/02/turning-names-into-fans.html' title='Turning names into fans'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-827830816258553660</id><published>2007-02-12T06:35:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-02-12T20:46:43.810-08:00</updated><title type='text'>The Business of Music....Bettering Your Odds</title><content type='html'>So you’ve decided that your life’s work is being a musician (substitute songwriter for musician if you choose.)  You feel the call to live your life as a musician.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You've got real talent. You've mastered your instrument, practiced, played in front of mega audiences and honed your craft. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've got some advice for you. The best advice I can give you about making it in the music business.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Be Realistic about the Odds&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But, first  we’re going to talk about the realities of the music business. I do this to help you prepare. I’m not trying to discourage you or talk you out of your dream, even though the first few paragraphs might make you think that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are hundreds of thousands, perhaps millions of people in this country alone, who would like to make their careers in making music. Then there are the people in other countries,. There are plenty of them I can assure you. I get several packages a week from artists all over the world looking for help with their careers. In the US and the rest of the world there millions who share your dream.....you know the lyric...”money for nothin’ and the chicks for free.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A small  percentage of the people who have the dream also have talent.  A smaller percentage have real talent that makes them stand out....BIG TALENT.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Not all the people who want to make their living with their music are going to be successful. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know, that’s not you.....you’ve got the karma...you play like a god....you can sing....you look good....your talent grows exponentially by the day. Here is the first revelation. There are a lot of people with BIG TALENT who will never succeed, because talent is only part of the equation that leads to success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A fact of life is 99.9% will not succeed, they will have to give up their dream. Some will continue to play but will be forced to take other jobs to live, and most will give up music all together. You must face the fact that the odds of you living your dream are pretty dismal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;About a year ago I was having breakfast right before a big music conference and a waiter at the Waffle House in Nashville (Music City,)  asked me “How do you get a musician off your porch.” The answer was “pay him for the pizza.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are a lot of “musicians” delivering pizza, working at Blockbuster or Wal Mart to put food on the table , because there are a lot more musicians than opportunities.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let’s look at this a little closer so the picture gets a little clearer. We’ll take just one genre of music for a moment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are 35,000 song writers living in Nashville, Tennessee. That’s not counting the musicians, just songwriters. And that doesn’t count the country songwriters who don’t live in Nashville. If each of those songwriters only writes one song per year that’s 35,000 songs. There are about 100 songs each year that make the national country charts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can figure out the odds by yourself, of writing a country song and have it be a hit.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are serious about making “musician” your life’s work you must face the facts that the odds are against you....just being able to make a living playing music.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To sign a major label deal, tour internationally, and be a “STAR” your odds are much worse.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now the music business is changing, and there are those who predict that it will be a lot more opportunities for more musicians&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think changes are coming....not as fast and or as much as I see quoted in lots of articles on the net, but changes are coming, over time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even with those changes, a lot more people will have the dream than will make the dream a reality.  And lets face it, even if the net does level the playing field some, the folks who spend a million dollars are going to get more accomplished than those who spend a couple of thousand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It doesn’t hurt to dream the dream that you are going to be discovered....that a major label will put big money behind you....and you will become a STAR!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just don’t forget, while you’re dreaming.... &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;to work hard on the business of music and not just the art of playing good music&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt; Because working on the business of music will help you be successful at every stage in your career.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If the editors of this publication allow me to write this column in future months I’ll discuss these changes in more detail. These changes will give more people more opportunities to have a career in music.  But the changes make what I am about to reveal to you even more important than ever before.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every step of the way in your career, you are going to need to be smarter in business than your fellow musicians.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Earlier I mentioned I was going to give you the most valuable information for anyone wanting to make their living playing music.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here it is. The bad news is......the secret isn’t about music.  It’s about business.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;You should get the name and other information of every person who ever comes to your shows. You also should capture the information of everyone who visits your web site or your profile on MySpace, or any of the other music/social sites.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;That information is &lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 0);"&gt;GOLD&lt;/span&gt; to you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Don't wait. Start doing it today.  If you can find someone who will do a good job of doing it for you (girlfriend, brother, sister, groupie, fan) then pay someone or &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;do it yourself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't make the mistake of announcing from the stage, " Please  come over to the  table and sign up for our list"  Very few people will do that.  You want someone to go to every  table in the place and hit up all the folks  standing around and at the bar  too!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And if there is a turnover in the crowd, go around and do it again. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;An established principal of direct marketing is that it is easier to get money, get more money from a customer, than getting someone new to buy from you.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;The information that you get...those names etc., you will make your living from them the rest of your career if you work it right, they are your existing customers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Working Bars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you are polishing your talent, if you are old enough you will probably be working in bars.  Working in bars these names become invaluable to you.  Here is a fact to learn about the bar business.  See 99% of  bars don’t care very much about your music...what kind it is and how well you play it....bars care about whether you put bodies in the door.  Will you fill up their establishment with people who will eat, drink and tip the staff.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A mediocre band that can put 500 party people in the place will get booked again and again before a great band that makes great music but only brings in 100.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's why bands that do covers play bars a lot more (and often make more money) than bands that mostly play their own originals.  The normal bar crowd doesn't know your originals. They come to dance to songs they know and drink. It's easier for them to have fun if they know the songs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So if you want to play your originals you want to have the bar full of people who know your stuff.&lt;br /&gt;How do you get people to show up at your shows? You take the information that you collected and email the people. Tell them you need to see them at the show.  Make them feel special.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And each and every time you gig you go around from table to table and around the room to gather even more names.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Merchandising&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Merchandising is a great way to raise the extra money you need to pay for recordings, preparation of demo packages etc. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And, everyone wearing a t-shirt or cap with your name on it is free advertising and a great way to expand the number of people who are aware of you. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The person who goes around and gathers your names can also sell merchandise at the gigs (but not to the exclusion of getting the names.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But you shouldn't stop there.  You have to sell to your direct marketing customers. Who are they?  They are the accumulated list.  When you communicate with your email list be sure to offer specials on merchandise. You add to your merchandising total sales by selling to your list.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Touring&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;As your talent and ambitions grow, you may want to tour, or at the very least to play outside your regular locales so that you can add new folks to your fan base.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before you head out...check your list to see if you already have folks from the areas where you are heading. You can contact them to help pave the way for you, invite their friends, put up posters, be your advance street team.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you play in a new area you need to have someone collecting  names there too!  Next big tip! Be sure to play in the same  area/ place again within 45 to 90 days and email the list gathered from your last gig. Put more bodies in the place so the venue owners can see that your crowd is growing. You can bet they will have you back again. And encourage these folks not only to return but to bring their friends. And some of them can be recruited to be on your street team, letting even more  people  know about you and your music.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Putting out a CD&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you decide to put out a CD or a single, you can promote to your fan list to get them to go the record store (if you have distribution) or to your web site to buy. If you are going after radio play you can get your fan list to phone and email the radio station asking them to play your music.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can ask your fan list to go to sites like Yahoo Music and rate your music highly. You can also get your fan list to help spread the work about you and your music on MySpace and other music/social sites.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Going after a label&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having a large fan list will help you when you are trying to generate music label interest. Today, few labels are willing to invest in artist development. As they cut costs the artist that has already built a fan base and communicates with them will be much more valuable to them. They realize that building a fan base can be a costly thing to do for them...but if you already have done much of the work then all they have to do is expand on it.  Show them an active fan base, one that goes to your gigs and buys your CD's. It gives you points over the act that can't demonstrate them come with a fan base.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255); font-weight: bold;"&gt;I'll say it one more time  for emphasis.  Here's the best advise I can give you about making it in the music business. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Where are you going to find people to help you reach for your dreams? From the names that you gathered  at your shows.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Build a list. Be sure to sort it by state and city.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Communicate with them. Offer them special deals. Have a chat session set up so you can interact with them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The guy playing on the stage with you....he won’t be the most important person to your being successful. In fact....some of the most important people to you being successful will never set a foot on the stage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The most important person to your future just might be the person getting the names of people who come to your shows. A close second will be the administrator of your web site/fan club.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;This item was adapted from one originally published in Saint Louis Sound, a magazine which promotes live music in Saint Louis, Missouri....in the USA.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-827830816258553660?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/827830816258553660/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=827830816258553660' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/827830816258553660'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/827830816258553660'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2007/02/business-of-musicbettering-your-odds.html' title='The Business of Music....Bettering Your Odds'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-117077706973992768</id><published>2007-02-06T07:43:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-02-12T17:50:33.369-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Mamas and Papas</title><content type='html'>&lt;div id="cover-sheet"&gt;I wrote this after the death of Denny Daughtery, one of the Papas.  &lt;hr /&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div class="Section1"&gt;     &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;I was a student at  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;st1:place&gt;&lt;st1:placename&gt;Ohio&lt;/st1:placename&gt;  &lt;st1:placetype&gt;University&lt;/st1:placetype&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt; in 1966, and Entertainment  Editor of College Forum Magazine, a national college publication. To raise  awareness of the magazine and to raise money the publisher sponsored a concert  with headliners, the Mamas and Papas, at OU.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Because I was a musician, active in the business, I was  given responsibilities for the event which including selecting the opening act  and hosting the Mamas and Papas.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I had recently performed a show with an act from&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;st1:place&gt;&lt;st1:city&gt;Franklin&lt;/st1:city&gt;,  &lt;st1:state&gt;Ohio&lt;/st1:state&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;, that I thought would be a novel opening  for the show. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I hired  &lt;st1:city&gt;&lt;st1:place&gt;Gary&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt; and the Hornets for the opening  spot on the Mamas and Papas show and had a contract drawn up with their mother,  as Gary (the guitar player) was ten years old. His brothers, Greg (bass) who was  12 years old, and Steve (drums) who was six, made up the rest of the band. They  had just released a song, &lt;i style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;“A Kind of  Hush,”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; which was getting some airplay around  &lt;st1:place&gt;Midwest&lt;/st1:place&gt; radio stations. As I recall this was prior to the  release of the same tune by Herman’s Hermits.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Came the night of the concert and I was excited, not  only to meet the Mamas and Papas, but to see how the crowd would take to the  opening act. Most of those in the audience were college students. The announcer  introduced them and the three boys&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;walked out on the stage and a strange silence  came over the crowd, followed by laughter. The crowd thought it was a joke.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;Backstage, the Mamas and Papas had arrived. Being a  musician of the era I was no stranger to states of altered consciousness, and it  take me long to see that all four were “under the influence.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;John was aloof at first. Later he became more vocal and  conversational, though he would often get lost in his train of thought and end  up in a different conversation than he started. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;Michelle was up against a wall, almost  cowering….obviously not having a good trip…she was mumbling and seemed to shrink  away from anyone who tried talking with her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;Cass was having a great time, jovial, funny and  obviously horny as she was propositioning almost anyone in pants.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Denny was went from very quiet to very outgoing and back  to very quite. He was quite friendly though and we had a chance to talk a little  about his starting his musical career &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;in&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;st1:country-region&gt;&lt;st1:place&gt;Canada&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;  and how he had met and starting working with the others.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Meanwhile, out on the stage,&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;st1:city&gt;&lt;st1:place&gt;Gary&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt; and the Hornets  had taken the crowd by surprise. Although&lt;/span&gt; they were just kids, they played  together very well, these kids could rock!!! Little by little the crowd had gotten into these three kids playing damn good music,  and by the end of their set they had completely won the  audience over. They went off the stage to a standing ovation of &lt;span class="GramE"&gt;clapping,&lt;/span&gt; stomping, screaming and whistling that lasted five minutes.&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Apparently this didn’t sit very well with the Mamas and  Papas.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;They were announced and came onto  to the stage within a few minutes of the Hornets exiting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="GramE"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;,  &lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;faster&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; than we had expected.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Once on stage they gave a very good performance with  their hits but exited in less than 25 minutes. They walked off the stage and  into a waiting car, without even coming back for an encore.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;The crowd, as you might guess, was not happy.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;And I learned that night, the W.C. Fields adage about  never going on stage after children, was oh so true.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;Charles “Max” E. Million &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;CEO, American &lt;span class="GramE"&gt;Eagle&lt;/span&gt;  Recordings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Years later when my own career took off I moved to LA. One of the places that you could always find a party was the house owned by John and Michelle Phillips.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-117077706973992768?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/117077706973992768/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=117077706973992768' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/117077706973992768'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/117077706973992768'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2007/02/mamas-and-papas.html' title='Mamas and Papas'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-117077628029487061</id><published>2007-02-06T07:32:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T05:48:46.336-08:00</updated><title type='text'>James Brown and I</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RumAOxGdSWI/AAAAAAAAACQ/IaZ4FUIslNM/s1600-h/P1010048.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RumAOxGdSWI/AAAAAAAAACQ/IaZ4FUIslNM/s320/P1010048.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5109756243415484770" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RumAPBGdSXI/AAAAAAAAACY/vjU6GX6aZ58/s1600-h/P1010049.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RumAPBGdSXI/AAAAAAAAACY/vjU6GX6aZ58/s320/P1010049.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5109756247710452082" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RumAPhGdSYI/AAAAAAAAACg/gGbUXwR-YSA/s1600-h/P1010077.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RumAPhGdSYI/AAAAAAAAACg/gGbUXwR-YSA/s320/P1010077.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5109756256300386690" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;James Brown is dead.  An Entertainment Icon of Giant Proportions. Thought I would share my personal story about James Brown. It comes in three parts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;1. The show. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I started playing music in high school James Brown was one of my idols. I was a lead singer and did my white boy best to be like James. I listened to James Brown Live at the Apollo over and over again, buying multiple copies as I wore them out. When I had publicity photos taken I even had one done on my knees singing Please Please.  I was pretty lame of course in being a white boy trying to emulate a giant.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Went away to college at Ohio University to be a journalist and still played music on the weekends. I started writing for a national college publication called College Forum Magazine and since I was a working musician opening for some major acts they gave me the title of Entertainment Editor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;James Brown was doing a concert in Columbus, Ohio, about 100 miles from &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;OU&lt;/span&gt; and I decided it was too great an opportunity, I had to try to interview him.  I made contact through his organization and showed up on the designated evening at the Veterans Memorial Auditorium (if my memory serves me ) as excited as I had ever been.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some of his people introduced themselves and took me back stage to meet members of his band. They shared some of their experiences but most were pretty guarded. As the time approached when the show was supposed to begin I was given tickets to sit out front and enjoy the show. As I was walking from the back to the seats I noticed that the tickets were in the 22&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;nd&lt;/span&gt; row, and I turned around and went back to guy who gave me the tickets and protested. I wanted to be right in front. I told him when I did other interviews that I had been given front row seats. He looked at me and said...No, these are the best seats for you. I argued and argued but he held firm that the seats in row 22 was where I should be. He said I'd understand better later.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Brown put on a fantastic show, one of the best I have ever seen (and I've seen hundreds.) About the middle of the show, two very large black men appeared on the stage and stood on either side of him and grabbed James by his upper arms. He stuck his hands out and the men on either side of him lifted him up and started from one side of the stage and moved toward the other side. He was giving his fans a chance to shake his hand and/or to touch him. It was almost a riot. The people in the first 15-20 rows moved en &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;masse&lt;/span&gt; toward the stage....everyone trying to get to him.  Later that night I commented on it to him and he showed me his arms. From the elbows down he had new scratches and old scars from people who just had to touch him and tried holding on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Had I been in the front row.....who knows what would have happened...but it probably wouldn't have been good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;2. Interview Attempt.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After the show was over I had to wait over an hour for James to clean up and come out to talk with me.  The crowd had left and security went through the auditorium making sure everyone was out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A couple of chairs had been set out on the stage for the two of us to talk.  After what seemed like forever he came out and sat down in the chair and I began to talk with him.  I hadn't gotten started into anything meaningful before a woman came out of nowhere...running as fast as she could....and attached herself to the star....holding on for dear life as she kissed him, proclaimed her love, then protested and cried as she was being pulled off him and taken out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No sooner had they got her halfway out of the auditorium than another woman came running and then another.  Brown had to leave and go back to the dressing room as security went through the auditorium again, looking for other stragglers. This time they had brought in a dog to help them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After about 20 more minutes we tried again.  James came out and sat down and we had just exchanged some comments about women wanting to meet him. Once again out of nowhere came a woman and then another desperately trying to get to him. Security caught the first one but the second one got to him and wrapped herself around him. It took a lot of work to get her pried off.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At that point we gave up trying to do the interview there.  He told me to go to the private jet terminal in Columbus where he had his plane and we would do the interview there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;3.  Interview at the Airport&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I headed toward the jet terminal in my car and as we approached the terminal a big limo passed by.  I guess James saw me in the car because the window came down and out popped James. As he passed he had tilted a bottle of wine straight up and was guzzling down the contents. This later proved to be funny because in the interview he told me he didn't drink.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I did my interview at the terminal.  James was bigger than life, and he had no small ego. When I asked him "Do you think that you are the Negro equivalent of the Beatles?" (&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Ok&lt;/span&gt; so it was a stupid question) Brown stated "No, I won't say Negro because I might be segregating myself, I'll just say I'm THE MAN."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The thing I remember most about the interview itself was something that I touched on in the interview that afterwards took on a much larger significance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I had asked Brown about his civil rights efforts. At the time other black entertainers had gotten a lot of press about their efforts and there had been some criticism that he was not doing enough.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Brown's reply was "I haven't been to many marches but I've made the bigger ones. I'm a level cat; I believe in right and wrong and I take part in what I believe. Like the march in Jackson, Mississippi. I was there. I had the biggest part in the whole thing. I had to fly back to Cincinnati that night to do a show.  Really, I'm not big on marches; I don't believe in walking."  And that was the end of our discussion on his civil rights efforts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After the interview was done, the pilot of Brown's plane came over to me and said, "Let me tell you something that he won't, but you can't print it."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He related to me that Brown decided he wanted to go to Jackson and take the band on the plane to perform for the marchers. But they were not close to Jackson and they had to be in Cincinnati on the night of the march.   Brown's plane was built to hold eight and the band was much larger than that, so the pilot told him that he couldn't do it...and Brown asked why.  He was told that there were too many people to fit on the plane. Brown asked if he pared down some people and got them on the plane would he be able to get the plane off the ground. The pilot told him yes but he still couldn't do it cause the FAA would take away his license. Brown asked how long would  his license be suspended? The pilot told him probably for a year. Brown asked him how much he got paid a year to fly him around and was told $50,000 (remember this was the 60's.) Brown wrote him a check for $50,000 and told him to be ready to leave in two hours. They went to Jackson and played for the marchers, and didn't get caught.  So, the pilot offered Brown the check back but was refused.  "You took the risk...you earned it."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was an experience I will never forget. I got a chance to talk with and share some time with one of my idols. I have had the opportunity to meet and spend time with a lot of greats because I was in the entertainment business myself. Few have stuck in my mind like the few hours I spent with James Brown.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);"&gt;I am a pack rat.  After I wrote this, I dug around to see if I could find the original article that I wrote, and sure enough I still had it.  The following is the story I wrote, originally published in 1965 or 1966 for College Forum Magazine after my interview with James Brown. Give me a break it was 40 years ago....OK?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(204, 153, 51);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;    In an average month, he will give away some 5,000 autographed pictures and 1,000 pairs of James Brown cuff links, will wear 120 freshly laundered shirts and more than 80 pairs of shoes. He will change his performing costume 150 times and will perform over 80 hours on the stage - singing, dancing, and also playing at least 960 songs on one or more of eight instruments. He is, as well, songwriter, choreographer and designer of clothes for himself and his entire cast.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;His shows are sung with military precision and Brown is his own &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;logistician&lt;/span&gt;. There is a two ton truck for instruments and gear, an elegantly fitted-out bus for the cast and crew, and a private Cadillac limousine for himself. He also has his own eight passenger jet. The stakes are very high. With the show playing all but 60 nights a year, the gross can fun as high as $3,000,000.00 annually, and out of this, James Brown is good for more than $250,000.00.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With all this, the five-foot six-inch, 135 pound singer has become something of a folk hero.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We witnessed hundreds of his fans waiting hours in the cold to get a glimpse of their idol. We got our interview in a secluded spot of a private air terminal. Even there, James Brown could not get away from his fans. People came from working on planes so that they could get his autograph.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;    The &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;College Forum &lt;/span&gt;interviewer was standing in front of James Brown holding a few sheets of paper when James Brown lifted the papers from his hand. After looking them over for a second, he handed them back and the interview proceeded.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Brown: &lt;/span&gt;Oh! Those are your questions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;CF:  &lt;/span&gt;Yes, now all I need are the answers.  A lot of top Negro entertainers have worked in the civil rights movement. Your  name has  not come up in the newspapers or magazines  with reference to civil rights; how do you feel about this?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Brown: &lt;/span&gt;I haven't been to many marches, but I made the bigger ones. I'm a level cat;  I believe in right and wrong and I take part in what I believe. Like the march in Jackson, Mississippi. I was there. I had the biggest part in the whole thing. I had to fly back to Cincinnati that night to do a show. Really, I'm not big on marches; I don't believe in walking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;CF:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 0);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;A lot of British groups have said that you are their favorite entertainer.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; I like the fellow personally, and they like me. There's only one group that I've paid any attention to because they do so much more. That's the Rolling Stones.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; Do you think you influenced them in any way? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Well, they're doing all my stuff.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Do you think you are the Negro equivalent of the Beatles?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;I won't say Negro because I might be segregating myself. I'll just say &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I'm &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;THE MAN!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; Have you ever done a European tour? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; Yes&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;How did you go over in Europe?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;The number one entertainer over there!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Did you get the same kind of reaction that you get here?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; Worse. In Europe, the police don't carry guns and they don't have anyting to keep the kids back with.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;What U.S. city do you most like to play in? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;No favorite city, but I'd rather work in my own home town, Augusta, Georgia, because of past memories.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; Would you rather play a concert in a city or on a college campus?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;I love college campuses. I like to do a show and have everybody understand. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;What is the biggest night club you have ever played in?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; The Latin Casino in Cherry Hill, New Jersey. It has 2,500 seats and we've had it filled for two weeks. On the strip in L.A. they just mention my name and they sell it out. I don't like night clubs. I owe a lot to may audience and kids can't see me in clubs. (This is in reference to age laws that restrict minors from places where liquor is sold.) &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;What would you say made you a success?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Number one, you've got to like people, and then you've got to appreciate them; they made you. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;  I noticed that in your concert you got right down in the audience. A lot of groups won't get near their audiences.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; Let me show you something. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Editor's Note: At this point James Brown unbuttoned his shirt sleeves and rolled them up to show our interviewer his arms. From the elbows down they were covered in small scars.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; Did you get those from people grabbing at you like I saw them do tonight?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; Yes. Every night I get them. But I go ahead anyway because my audience made me and I owe this to them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; How many performances do you do a year?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;In a year, about 350.  I don't work 350 days, though; some days we do more than one show. I end up working about 300 days a year. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;When do you have time to do all your choreography?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Once you are a professional it only takes five minutes to work up a new routine. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Watching the show I noticed that when you moved, everyone moved. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;They (the band) would move even if I didn't move, because everyone knows what they are doing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; Does it take them long to learn it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;No, this was imbedded in their minds many years ago. I drive the cats so hard that they become a part of me. They have to be part of me or they can't do it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Who do you think has had the most influence on your career?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; My manager, Ben Bart - he has helped shape my career; he had the Ink Spots, Little Willie and Della Reese before me. His counseling has kept me at the top. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;A lot of your background has been in gospel; do you think it do you think it has influenced your work.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; I sing soul, and soul starts in church.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; You certainly have your own style....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Brown:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt; ....You've got to have. I design my own clothes and hairdos. I could sell this (referring to the clothes he was wearing) to a million companies, but I'd rather let the people have it for nothing.  They'll associate it with the name. There comes a time when it doesn't mean much to make more money. I've made all the money I need; now I want to make friends.  I once saw Johnny Mathis in New York when he was top cat. He was walking down the street and nobody bothered him because no one recognized him.  When I go to New York I've got to have a police escort. It's because I'm my own cat. I'm an individual. People look up to me because I have my own clothes, hairdos and style.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;CF: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;There was a rumor that the song "Don't Be a Dropout" was paid for by the National Council on Education.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Brown:&lt;/span&gt; No, I went out on a limb and did it myself.  I got in touch with the Vice President, but he turned me down.  Then I did a show in Washington and I introduced the song there and it got so many adults and kids going my way that the Vice President came to see me. Now I'm on the Vice President's Council on Education.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;CF: &lt;/span&gt;What would you say is the one accomplishment you are most proud of?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Brown: &lt;/span&gt;It's hard to say. I guess when I think about it there's only one thing. One day when I was a kid reading a history book, I said to myself,  "One day, I 'm going to be in one of these books." I made history while I'm living and will be remembered after I'm dead.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I fill Madison Square Garden; fighters don't even do that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The one thing I'm most proud of is that once I was a shoe shine boy. Now I stand on the steps with the Vice President of the United States equally.  In fact, I've got more fans than he does, and that's the truth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-117077628029487061?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/117077628029487061/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=117077628029487061' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/117077628029487061'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/117077628029487061'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2007/02/james-brown-and-i.html' title='James Brown and I'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/RumAOxGdSWI/AAAAAAAAACQ/IaZ4FUIslNM/s72-c/P1010048.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-113934933105789416</id><published>2006-02-07T13:49:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-08-29T10:22:24.515-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Love is hard to find</title><content type='html'>We all live in the hope of loving and being loved.  There it is....very simple statement that is so true.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ears ago I went into business for myself, and I opened a dating service. It was different than anything out there at the time. Now there are systems built on the path that we established and research that we accomplished. Services like E-Harmony.com and Match.com with Dr. Phil. But then the concept that I put forward was totally new.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I got into it because I had gotten divorced and was having a tough time figuring out the dating game. I did a lot of research and the more I read and learned the more I found out that it is a miracle if anyone finds anybody.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And so it is today. Even when you think you have found someone....you may be wrong. And then another great truth I learned is reinforced. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;There is no love without pain. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22005460-113934933105789416?l=amillionmusings.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/feeds/113934933105789416/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=22005460&amp;postID=113934933105789416' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/113934933105789416'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22005460/posts/default/113934933105789416'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://amillionmusings.blogspot.com/2006/02/love-is-hard-to-find.html' title='Love is hard to find'/><author><name>max</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09099611096840313734</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KM5UPPOGoHY/SxRboc2acXI/AAAAAAAAAEE/vFi_i4Wr3MM/S220/Rhoades2ccca.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22005460.post-113917963894758654</id><published>2006-02-05T14:16:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2006-02-05T14:47:18.956-08:00</updated><title type='text'>liked and loved</title><content type='html'>I have a need to be liked and a need to be loved. In some ways it is a terrible weakness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People will use both against you. People that you trust. People that you think like you. People that you think love you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why is it so important to me?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today I was talking to someone in the music business, an artist. As a manager I am always on the lookout for a good artist. Gary Borman, manager for Faith Hill, James Taylor and others (A guy other managers would have to respect) said that the manager duties of being a manager aren't that tough...the tough part is finding the right talent to manage.  I sure would agree with that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway I'm talking to this lady and I asked her if there was anything else she wanted to know about me, and she said, "no, I know some people who know you. Some of them said good things and some said bad things." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That has been a couple of hours ago and I can't get it out of my mind...how come???&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think I'm a good guy....I try to be. I don't claim I've never lied or never cheated in my life....but day in and day out....I try to be a good guy to treat people well.  so it bothes me when people say bad things about me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wish I didn't care. 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